to have and not fold

a non-exhaustive list of things stressing me out about my upcoming wedding

I’m getting married this weekend.

I have a lot of feelings about marriage as an institution and the wedding industrial complex, but I also have a lot of feelings for my soon-to-be spouse. A lot of wedding planning is holding many things as being true at once. Weddings are joyous and also a remnant of patriarchy, that sort of thing.

I also have approxima…